'Bonifra' ~ A Woman You Don’t Want to Be
There’s a type of woman
I call a ‘Bonifra’.
And no,
it’s not just a name for any woman
it’s a title
that describes someone
whose energy
and
actions
are straight-up toxic.
The ‘Bonifra’
can
“change shapes,”
evolve,
and
wear “different faces,”
but
her impact on others?
Her impact on others
stays the same,
and
it’s never good.
The ‘Bonifra’
is the
Proverbs 7 woman
that God warned about.
She
doesn’t have
good intentions,
not even for herself.
She’s
the kind of
person
who leaves scars
on everyone she touches,
including
her own children.
The damage isn’t just physical,
but
emotional and spiritual,
and
it lingers
long after she’s gone.
Here’s the thing:
no one
is perfect,
but
the ‘Bonifra’
doesn’t even try to be.
She
isn’t about
healing or building
she’s
about
taking.
She manipulates,
creates chaos,
and moves through life
leaving wreckage behind.
Whether
she knows it or not,
she’s destroying connections,
trust,
and peace
along the way.
But here’s the twist
anyone
can become
a ‘Bonifra’
if they’re not careful.
That’s why
you gotta be aware
of your energy.
You can’t go around
spreading negativity,
hurting people,
and then act like it doesn’t matter.
It does.
So,
let this be a reminder:
Don’t be a Bonifra.
Focus
on growing,
healing,
and helping others
around you.
Be the
kind of person
who builds people up
instead of tearing them down.
Don’t leave scars,
leave
love and peace.
That’s the way to live,
and
that’s the legacy
you want
to leave behind.
All I’m Sayin’ Is…🫦
Stay real,
stay kind,
and
make sure
your presence
is one
that leaves people
better
than you found them.
😂