A Man Gotta Do What a Man Gotta Do.

Commonly Said. But do you understand what you're really saying?

I love Black men.

Like to a fault ~ seriously.

Because I believe that it's wrong to have so much pride in something.

And I do believe that a man gotta do what a man gotta do.

I really have to pray about this stuff, and people who knew me I was younger would say that I have gotten a lot better about this kinda stuff.

But how can I not think they're beautiful.

I mean, I've been taught by them, protected by them, loved by them, ~ I have even given birth to a few.

But, along with the love there comes the pain.

Intentional or Unintentional.

It comes.

A man gotta do what a man gotta do.

It's something that said 'differently' now-a-days. but said just as often; and given the same respect that it DOESN'T deserve.

Listen.

A man is SUPPOSED to do what he is SUPPOSED to do.

With that being said, when a man is telling you that he has important things to do than to talk to you ~ or to spend time with you ~ this is a BIG sign.

Human beings NATURALLY want to do things that are enjoyable.

LIKE spending time with other human beings when they ENJOY their company, conversation, etc...

A friend of mine told me once ~

that if he isn't making time for you ~

he's making time for 'someone'.

And it's true.

Hederal sexual men ~ they like women.

So, the TRUTH is when a man is telling you, that he gotta do what he gotta do ~he IS telling you the TRUTH.

He doesn't care enough about you to take that time out of his life for you.

It doesn't matter the reason.

BEFORE YOU HAVE A FIT AND START ALL THAT CRYIN' N STUFF

If he is broken, don't try and fix him ~ not the way the start a healthy relationship.

Don't be angry.

It's okay that he didn't want you.

You want someone who does.

Besides, most men feel very uncomfortable hurting a woman's feelings. He MAY be trying to spare your feelings.

All I'm Sayin' Is...🫦

More than likely ~ he's a coward.

AND it's okay to be afraid,

we ALL

become afraid

of things in life,

where the cowardice

comes in (and if they're being honest, they'll admit it ~ oops no they won't they're the cowards) ~ they're so afraid that they would rather maintain a lie. (whole another article).🫦

Candy K 🍭